Tuesday, October 9, 2012

Everyday is a new day of possiblilities

Be thankful for everyday that begins, you have a new day to do anything you want, be anything you want.  Even when life seems to be so hard and you feel like nothing is working just remember time changes everything.  Just keep working on moving forward and making positive changes.  No matter how small they may be you are still making a change for a better day tomorrow than you had today.

Have faith in a high power and believe that our Father in Heaven loves you and wants you to be happy and wants you to keep moving forward and trying to change all in your life that is bringing you down or making you feel like you are worthless.  NO ONE is worthless!!!!

Keep moving forward in faith and hope and time will help change all that is holding you back.

Corinna C Jones
Personal Life and Business Coach
Clutter Expert and Organizational Consultant

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Monday, October 1, 2012

SOCIAL MEDIA is the BIGGEST BULLY of ALL

I see shows on TV about Dance, Modeling and  it just makes me upset that we have a dance coach that isn't inspiring her students to do the best they can she is instilling fear in them.  To fear her to fear loosing to fear that they are not the best every time if they don't win first place. Fear that if you don't win you are just a loser.  That is so sad to me.

 We have a professional model and business women now using social media to tear apart girls and allowing strangers who are not professional models to tell them they don't like them, they are not good enough and they need to change this and that about themselves to be liked.  That is just wrong.

We are suppose to be against any form of bullying. Why is this now the normal.  It should not be the normal.  It never should be the normal.  Our children need to learn that working hard and doing your best doesn't always mean you will be picked to be the winner.  What matters is that you are doing your best, giving your all and feeling good about yourself no matter the out come.

I think that we need to continue building girls up and helping them be the best they can be.  We need to teach them that they don't always have to win to be the best.  We need to teach them to first love them selves so that when others try and tear them down they turn to themselves and realize they are of worth and no one can take that worth from them.  We need to teach them that beauty comes from within and being kind, loving and compassionate towards everyone is what real beauty is.  We need to remind our girls, young women that they are daughters of GOD and that we are ALL created in his image, we are of GREAT WORTH.

 WE need to remind ourselves as grown women this same thing. We are of great worth.  Let's STOP finding fault with others and allowing social media to tell us we are beautiful or talented.

SOCIAL MEDIA in all its forms is now the BIGGEST BULLY of all. Anyone can get on a social media site and begin to bash and trash others for thousands of people to see.  It is the BIGGEST and most DANGEROUS BULLY out there.  You can humiliated and torture someone and everyone gets to see it.  It has caused people to take there own life.  And we still think that it is okay to do this. It is NOT okay, only you and I can stop this.  STOP this TODAY.


Putting others down and making fun of them and trashing someones name and trying to make others hate another person is common place today, that is so WRONG, we need to STOP this now.  This is just not how we need to act towards others.

What happened to sharing only the good with others, and remembering "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.

WORDS HURT and we DON"T FORGET those hurtful words, they just keep coming back to hurt us.   WORDS HURT.  So, why not start saying KIND WORDS.  Let's build someone up and help them instead of tearing them down. 

Grown women have told me that bullying is part of life today and it is OK, they are mom's of girls who bully others, I just think that is so SAD and so WRONG.  Why are we letting this be apart of growing up it should not be the normal for some kids, it it WRONG.  We need to teach our children and young adults how to deal with others in a kind way, how to feel compassion for others that are different, who don't wear the same kind of clothes or who look and dress different.  We need to teach our kids how to reach out and be friends with someone that is struggling someone that is different someone that is hurting.  We need to REMIND our children they are NOT better than anyone else in this world.  And we need to REMIND ourselves that and be better examples to our children.


We need to teach our kids to look beyond themselves and not feel they are better than anyone else just because they may have life a little easier because of the hard work of there parents.  NO KID is entitled to anything.  Teach them the value of hard work and STOP GIVING THEM EVERYTHING.  They DON"T NEED it.  Help them know the joy of HARD WORK..  The JOY of serving others that don't have what they have.  Teach them to have COMPASSION instead of HATE.

BE BETTER EXAMPLES of COMPASSION and KINDNESS!!!  START TODAY!






A KIND WORD can do more good than you may know. TRY IT today.  Corinna C Jones